In my writing course, we were asked to think about three questions. I
answered them from the perspective of what it may mean to the child.
Who are we there for anyways? All the get to know you games, team
building exercises, models of teaching and tricks in the world won't
matter if YOU the teacher don't stand for and DO what you preach. YOU
are your student's primary role model.
What is a classroom community?
When
considering my answer to this prompt, i googled the question to see
what other people online had to say about what a classroom community
was. Oddly enough, the search engine did not deliver results for an
answer to the question but rather information on how to develop one. I
did find an article by Mishael Hittie that stated "By definition, a
community is a group of people who work with one another building a
sense of trust, care, and support. This means that in our classrooms,
part of our job is to provide opportunities and structures bywhich
students can help and support one another. It also means that we
provide explicit instruction and support so that students learn how to
do this." The ideas and tips presented ranged from getting to know you
games to teaching models (cooperative learning). While all of those
things are good, having a child with an autism spectrum disorder has
given me both the parental and educator's perspective of just what a
classroom community means to THE CHILD. We as educators can think all
we want that we are doing a great job for the class as a whole but if we
are missing what is best of fair for one child, we do NOT have a
classroom community (my opinion). The definition of fair that I use is
that from Rick Lavoie who says that everyone gets what they need...not
that everyone gets the same thing.
One example that I
like to use is that of a child who is overly active, or even a child
who is on the spectrum and we are seeing an impending "meltdown".
Quite often, these children get into trouble, are seen as odd, poorly
behaved, and usually end up "having all their tickets pulled" or are
"on red" at the end of every single day. My suggestion has been over
and over that these children be given socially acceptable tasks to
alleviate their need. So, if a child needs to move, give them a job
where they can move. Have them return a book to the school library,
take a message to the office or a teacher next door...even if it is
something that is not truly necessary...perhaps a pre-arranged task
will alleviate the classroom disruption, allow the active child the
physical outlet he or she needs (or allow the child on the spectrum
some cool down time). This will keep the child out of the "red-zone"
and not put a target on the child's back. Children who are often in
trouble a lot end up getting tattle-taled on by their peers,
particularly in the younger grades. In the older grades, they may
socially withdraw or deliberately disrupt the class because they don't
stand a chance anyways.
Another example. I knew a
student who was suspected to have Fetal Alcohol effects. He displayed
some severe behavior disorders in the classroom and one in particular
was improper use of scissors. This was a kindergarten classroom and
the scissors were kept in group supply boxes at each table. This
student was eventually removed from a group table and sat at a desk by
himself. Considering that he was ALWAYS in trouble, his peers ratted
him out on everything he did, how was this teacher helping to
facilitate the classroom community? I was friends with her and my
suggestion to her had been to remove the scissors from all of the
tables, put them in a bin and only get the scissors out when the
students actually needed to cut so they were not available to him on a
constant basis. Her response was that she was not going to do that the
she had taught for 30 years and had never had to do that before and he
needed to learn. But...the thing is...we KNEW his brain was NOT
normal!!!! What if he was not capable of learning...or just not capable
of learning then? So he was isolated from his peers and a bull's eye
on his back. Shameful.
Sometimes, looking at things from
each CHILD's perspective and giving each CHILD what he or she needs
individually can make a classroom community for the ENTIRE class. That
is truly no child left behind. All the getting to know you games in
the world will not accomplish that.
Why is it important to promote classroom community?
Failure
to promote classroom community can be a life or death situation.
Having been involved in education for 6 years as a substitute teacher
(two years of which i was attending graduate school), I have had one
student commit suicide who had Asperger Syndrome....the same diagnosis
as my son. I am not saying that his suicide is the result of failure
on the educator's part because I do not know all that transpired in the
classroom and between the parents. But, I do think that there was
failure somewhere when a 14 year old kills himself by hanging himself
in a tree.
What else can happen if we fail to promote
classroom community? During my student teaching, I had a student who
was on the spectrum but on no IEP. His teacher was so bothered by him,
she sat him as far away from her as she could. Again, a student
always losing all of his "tickets" and being "on red". Classic case of
a teacher demonstrating to the class just who the "problem child" is
and therefore he was shunned by his classmates. No one would play with
him at recess. Children said out loud to him that they were not going
to play with him, they did not want to sit by him. During my 10 weeks
of student teaching, the behavior of the student did not improve with
her behavior management system but worsened. He began to retaliate
against other students. Additionally, two students bullied him at
recess one day...on the merry-go-round, one of them pried his hands off
the bars while the other shoved him off of it while it was moving at
high speed. How old was this child? Six. One day, he said to me,
"Mrs. A, I hope those two ladies don't hurt my feelings ever again and I
hope Mrs. X (name withheld) dosen't hurt my feelings again either."
He was talking about his classroom teacher, the intervention specialist
and the principal. He had become fixated on the fact that another
first grade classroom did not have a tornado drill sign and only a fire
drill sign. Instead of the teacher in the room doing what was best
for the CHILD (making one up quickly so he could relax) and the others
in the room (she would have been able to focus her teaching time back
on the group instead on him), she kept having to tell him to sit down
and do his work for 20 minutes. Afterwards, he got berated by his
homeroom teacher for 15 minutes....and a week later boisterously
reminded of his misbehavior in front of the class. What this shows me,
is that children with autism disorders may not DISPLAY emotional
feelings but they HAVE them.
Failure to promote classroom
community from the CHILD's viewpoint...it hurts self-esteem, sets a
precedence for how others in the classroom can treat another student
and can lead to bullying.
What can we do in general as teachers to build classroom community?
Think
beyond the normal. Think CHILD first. Think about what you are
saying to parents. I have lived the life of a parent who picked their
child up every single day to hear what my son did wrong at school
today. Silly, ridiculous stuff...he dumped over her pencil
cup...ok...he has 10,000 things he has to work on. Can YOU the teacher
solve ONE by putting your pens and pencils in your desk for a year?
The answer I got was no....he had to learn and none of the rest of the
kids in the class had the problem. Did I feel like I and my son were a
part of the community? No.
Think about how each child
feels at the end of every day. Evaluate whether THEY feel a part of
the community. All of the tips, games, tricks, teaching models in the
world are meaningless if there in ONE in the class who is hurting.
Figure out what YOU need to do, change, rearrange, communicate to reach
that ONE child.
Integrate community building through
critical literacy. Many wonderful books are available especially for
junior high students including Missing May by Cynthia Rylant, Rules by Cynthia Lord, A Corner of the Universe by Ann M. Martin, Mockingbird by Kathryn Erskine and so many others.
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