He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words.”
~ Elbert Hubbard
Sometimes silence is a way of
communicating. Saying nothing says things loudly but only if we are
listening. The sense of hearing is associated with the presence or
absence of sound but most people only associate listening with the
presence of sound. Stop and think for a
moment of a time when you were given the "silent treatment". Saying
nothing at all can speak volumes...but does the intended receiver
understand? It takes a perceptive person to understand and I am not
sure most people stop and truly process what their senses tell them to
truly perceive...looking is not seeing...hearing is not
listening...touching is not feeling.
One who fails to perceive
in life short changes himself and others. What a sad loss. Some
people's silence is filled with prayerful meditation, others with a
spiteful message. People's words are also filled with importance.
Reading and hearing/listening is not equivalent to understanding though.
You must use all of your senses to make meaning...the more senses that
are engaged, the more meaning you have....but...remember, when it comes
to people (and many other things too) looking is not seeing, hearing is
not listening....go a bit deeper...then you might understand a bit
better.
Rosie .... this is beautifully written.
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